Shirley Joan McCoy Milburn was born on April 29, 1937, in Washington, D.C., the beloved daughter of Deacon John C. McCoy and Deaconess Margaret A. McCoy. She peacefully departed this life at home on Wednesday, November 5, 2025.

Shirley attended Luther Jackson High School, where she earned her high school diploma.

At an early age, Shirley accepted Jesus Christ as her Lord and Savior and was baptized at Chantilly Baptist Church. Her faith remained an important foundation throughout her life.

During her high school years, Shirley met the love of her life, James C. Milburn, Sr. They were united in marriage for 63 wonderful years. Together they raised six children: James, Bernard, Bonita, Janet, Rodney, and Chris.

Known affectionately as "Mama," Shirley was gentle, caring, and kind-hearted. She shared her warmth not only with her family, but also with the community and charitable organizations.

Shirley loved playing board games, especially scrabble with her family and was very competitive.

In addition to lovingly raising her six children and helping care for her grandchildren, Shirley held various jobs throughout her life. She later retired from Fairfax County Public Schools, where she found great joy working with children with special needs.

Shirley was preceded in death by her husband, James C. Milburn, Sr., and her son, Bernard P. Milburn, Sr.

She leaves to cherish her memory: Her children — James Jr. (Sylvia), Bonita (Thomas), Janet (Rodney Nelson), Rodney (Ben), and Chris; Daughter-in-law — Tammi; Ten grandchildren; fifteen great-grandchildren; and two great-great-grandchildren; Four sisters — Margaret, Doris, Evelyn (Cyril (Tony)), and Linda; And a host of other loving relatives and friends.

Shirley will be deeply missed and forever remembered for her unwavering faith, generous spirit, and everlasting love for her family.