Mary Elizabeth Furr, affectionately known as "Betty," was born on January 2, 1940, in Hillsboro, Virginia, to the late Clifton Ferrell and Gertrude "Furr" Timbers.  She made her home in Purcellville, Virginia, from the mid-1960s until her passing on October 3, 2025.  Mary received her early education at Carver Grade School and later attended Douglas High School. She was a devoted member of United Methodist Church in Hamilton, Virginia, remaining faithful in attendance even as her health began to decline.

Mary was raised in a loving home by her mother, Gertrude Virginia Timbers, and her stepfather, Howard "Gilbert" Timbers.  She was later joined by four brothers and four sisters.  Mary was well known for her deep love of family. She shared a close bond with her siblings, and their connection remained strong throughout the years. In addition to regular family gatherings, they kept in touch often—not only through phone calls but also through cherished weekly Zoom calls every Friday evening. Mary is survived by her four brothers: Howard Gilbert Timbers Jr. (Sharron), Alton Timbers Sr. (Linda), Alvin Timbers (Laverne), and Kenneth Timbers (Dora). She also leaves behind her three beloved sisters: Irene Morris (Clifford), Beatrice Dick (Russell), and Armatha Whiting (Henry).

Mary was united in marriage to Preston Ellsworth Carey on December 19, 1957, following what she described as a "love at first sight" encounter. Their deep and lasting love carried them through a wonderful marriage that lasted until Preston's passing in 1991.  Preston was a devoted husband, a loving father and father figure, a faithful brother, a cherished brother-in-law, and a loyal friend to many.  He and Mary shared a strong commitment to family, which was the foundation of their life together. Their home was a place filled with love, kindness, and generosity—always open to anyone in need. It was more than a home; it was a haven where many found comfort, support, and belonging. Their union left a lasting impact that extended far beyond their immediate and extended family, touching countless lives along the way. Mary leaves to mourn her son, Preston Ellsworth Carey Jr.; two daughters, Frances Hoyt and Michelle (Dana) Cobb; one foster daughter, Staci Scott. She is lovingly remembered by her grandchildren: Racine Wilson (Derek), Darnell Benson, Myrandah Staub, Dujane Carey, Tyquil Benson (Sarah), Alijah Benson, Preston Carey III, Malik Carey, Conte Mallory, Lee Roye Blue III, Taylor Blue, Joseph Blue, along with a host of great-grandchildren who brought her much joy.  She is also survived by a host of nieces and nephews. She was preceded in death by her beloved sister Ruth Ann Timbers and Jaja Rowe.

Mary was a dedicated and longtime employee of Graydon Manor, where she served faithfully for over 50 years until her retirement in 2012. She began her employment in 1958 as a resident aide working with children. She later transferred to the kitchen, where her mother worked as well. Her commitment was unwavering—she never missed a day of work, driven by her deep care for the children and her fellow staff members. Known for her exceptional cooking, Mary's meals were beloved by all who had the pleasure of enjoying them. Her talents extended beyond the kitchen, as she also coordinated countless events, including cocktail parties and family picnics. Over the years, Mary was honored with numerous awards in recognition of her outstanding service, devotion, and the positive impact she made on those around her.

This obituary may seem long, but it reflects the quiet generosity and Godly quiet strength that defined Mary's life. She never sought praise for the many ways she helped others, offering her support with humility and kindness. This tribute is a fitting and well-deserved way to honor her lasting impact and selfless spirit. As the scripture reminds us:

"Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all.
Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting;
but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.
Honor her for all that her hands have done,
and let her works bring her praise at the city gate."
— Proverbs 31:29–31 (NIV)